Joseph
Genesis 37:2-8, 17-36, Genesis 50: 15-21
This is the account of Jacob’s family line.
Joseph, a young man of seventeen, was tending the flocks with his brothers, the sons of Bilhah and the sons of Zilpah, his father’s wives, and he brought their father a bad report about them.
Now Israel loved Joseph more than any of his other sons, because he had been born to him in his old age; and he made an ornate robe for him. When his brothers saw that their father loved him more than any of them, they hated him and could not speak a kind word to him.
Joseph had a dream, and when he told it to his brothers, they hated him all the more. He said to them, “Listen to this dream I had: We were binding sheaves of grain out in the field when suddenly my sheaf rose and stood upright, while your sheaves gathered around mine and bowed down to it.”
His brothers said to him, “Do you intend to reign over us? Will you actually rule us?” And they hated him all the more because of his dream and what he had said.
Joseph went after his brothers and found them near Dothan. But they saw him in the distance, and before he reached them, they plotted to kill him.
“Here comes that dreamer!” they said to each other. “Come now, let’s kill him and throw him into one of these cisterns and say that a ferocious animal devoured him. Then we’ll see what comes of his dreams.”
So when Joseph came to his brothers, they stripped him of his robe—the ornate robe he was wearing— and they took him and threw him into the cistern. The cistern was empty; there was no water in it.
So when the Midianite merchants came by, his brothers pulled Joseph up out of the cistern and sold him for twenty shekels of silver to the Ishmaelites, who took him to Egypt.
Then they got Joseph’s robe, slaughtered a goat and dipped the robe in the blood. They took the ornate robe back to their father and said, “We found this. Examine it to see whether it is your son’s robe.”
He recognized it and said, “It is my son’s robe! Some ferocious animal has devoured him. Joseph has surely been torn to pieces.”
Meanwhile, the Midianites sold Joseph in Egypt to Potiphar, one of Pharaoh’s officials, the captain of the guard.
When Joseph’s brothers saw that their father was dead, they said, “What if Joseph holds a grudge against us and pays us back for all the wrongs we did to him?” So they sent word to Joseph, saying, “Your father left these instructions before he died: ‘This is what you are to say to Joseph: I ask you to forgive your brothers the sins and the wrongs they committed in treating you so badly.’ Now please forgive the sins of the servants of the God of your father.” When their message came to him, Joseph wept.
His brothers then came and threw themselves down before him. “We are your slaves,” they said.
But Joseph said to them, “Don’t be afraid. Am I in the place of God? You intended to harm me, but God intended it for good to accomplish what is now being done, the saving of many lives. So then, don’t be afraid. I will provide for you and your children.” And he reassured them and spoke kindly to them.
Abraham had a son named Isaac, Isaac had two sons named Jacob and Esau, and Jacob had twelve sons! Twelve sons is bound to lead to some family conflict, especially when one son is so clearly dad’s favourite. While Jacob’s preferential treatment towards Joseph likely created some hostility, Joseph’s own habits of tattle-taling and sharing his dreams of ruling over his family certainly didn’t help the situation. The brothers’ jealousy boils over extreme action - selling their brother into slavery and telling their father that he died. This is definitely a dysfunctional family.
And yet, we see that God is still working through this broken family to carry on the promise made to Abraham. God allowed Joseph to prosper in the land of Egypt, eventually being promoted to second in command. God told Joseph in a dream that a famine was coming to the land of Egypt so that he could prepare, ensuring there would be enough food to survive the famine. These efforts ended up not only saving Joseph’s family, but the lives of many others in Egypt and beyond. Here we begin to see how Abraham’s family becomes a blessing not just to themselves, but to those around them.
Whether we have intense sibling rivalries and stories of betrayal and deceit in our family tree or not, we all come from imperfect families. We may find ourselves in conflict with those who we thought would love us most or we may just find ourselves alone. Just as God worked through Joseph’s broken family and met Joseph even while he was in exile from his family, God meets us in our messy, lonely, and heartbroken lives.
Prayer:
Share with God any pain or anger that you are feeling related to your family. Ask God to help you see him at work in your life and your family’s life. Pray for those who have hurt you and ask God to help you know the right next steps to take.

